Igna & Mero pose with mayor |
Just like the
arrivals, the procedure for Igna and Mero to obtain the ‘precious’ certificate
was slow. The mayor of the Tubah council who had confirmed he will personally preside
over ceremony could not be seen at the time it was slated to begin.
It took the
groom several phone calls to locate the mayor who was unavoidably absent. He
then mandated one of his deputies, who also took time to arrive the council.
Mayor Barnabas
V. on arrival reignited the smoldering hope of the couple, their families and
friends. The mayor, before declaring them husband and wife, grilled the couple
in an open counseling session, though similar sessions had been held.
There’s no marriage without problems
The counseling
session was tough with the officiating registrar (mayor) firing questions at
the groom.
“Have you gone,
seen the parents of your spouse?”
After what
observers described as a tough moment, the mayor laughed when the groom
declared they are going in for monogamy but will have separate properties. This
was probably the first time the mayor was hearing this marital regime.
Before calling
on the bride and groom to sign on their marriage certificates, the mayor had
the following words for them; “there is no marriage without a problem. But the
important thing is that when you have a problem solve it. If you want your
marriage to be in peace, it will be. And if you want it to be in pieces, it
will be.”
The M-Moment
The much awaited
moment came with Igna and Mero exchanging marriage vows. When the mayor gave
Igna the green light to kiss the bride, he (Igna) took a moment to show the
about 100 of his guests and wife the feelings he doesn't often put into words
amidst shouting and galling applause.
At a reception
that followed at ‘Spee Arts Bukaroo’ in Nkwen, successive speakers like Pa Nfor
Henry (for the newlyweds), Choves Loh, Northwest regional representative of
SOPECAM (who popped the wedding champagne), Gwain Colbert aka Mr Bamenda (who
gave a toast), all wished the newlyweds well in their marital life.
Liquidation Committee
As guests
gradually retired, the groom’s colleagues created a “liquidation committee”
headed by Fon Keneth of Afrique MediaTV and Akamancho Ambe MacMillan of Afrique
Nouvelle Radio. The committee accompanied the newlyweds’ home where ‘part
three’ of the wedding ceremony continued to the early hours of Saturday March
28.
Igna and Mero
solemnized their ‘new life’ at the Catholic Church Bayelle on April 4; the eve
of this year’s Easter Sunday.
Happy matrimony!!
By Ndi Eugene
Ndi in Bamenda